quinta-feira, 22 de maio de 2008

Que coisa meiga você é?



Que coisa meiga você é?

2 comentários:

Anônimo disse...

knock, knock.
i made the test, but the link does not work. it only says "eu sou uma fada", what is this? female form of portuegese songs like "fado"?
i have not got the book yet, it will be here on monday, can i ask you something without having the book already? tolle is male, i want to have a female point of view, in these topics:
a) do you think the way you look at certain things is a specific female one? if so, when did you realise it?
b) from a female point of view, how important is sex? really very much? how much? does it hurt very much? i know these are teenager questions but when i was a teenager, lets....lets say, i was asleep, and i am waking up now.
c) is it possible to be female and not having a female point of view? i am female but my thoughts aren't. i can not explain it. maybe because it is hard for me to speak with my sister or with my mother or because my female friends kept betraying me.(do i sound stupid?) can i simply ask you? you are far away, i am anonymous, this is great. i even talk to my plants. no joke. they understand my language. you know why i think my toughts are not female? i always had that feeling. i am late. all girls had their period and i ggot it when i was 15. everybody was busy with boyfriends, i was busy with weird friends. i am not boyish, i do make up my eyes and skin, but i don't understand women magazines (i don't know the correct term in english), and inside of me, i feel ...there is a difference.
d) remember you first boyfriend, the one you had a physical relationship with, did he leave you? or you left him? i would not survive it. i would die. i know it. because this is the last border. if someone is inside of me and then leaves me, this must be awful. without having sex, it is horrible to be left alone, i don't want to imagine how it would be if....
i did not wnat to do anything today, but then, after having talked to my plants (really, they understand me), i thought i could ask you anything, anything i am to shy of saying to anbody. is this still okay, or not anymore?

Vivi disse...

First of all, I would like to say that it is always OK for you to ask me questions. I have many questions too, you know. And how else are we supposed to learn if we don't ask questions. I might not be able to answer all your questions, of course, but I can listen and give you my opinion on them.

In any case, I do not feel that you are being "weird" by saying that you talk to your plants or that you feel differently from other females. One thing I know for sure is that we are all different and unique in our own ways, and that applies to you, too, of course.

I have lived a lot in my short years. And I learn not to judge others for anything they do or think. Everything we all do has a meaning and a reasoning behind it. And, because of that, you are actually quite normal to me.

Answering your specific questions now (or at least trying to):

a) do you think the way you look at certain things is a specific female one? if so, when did you realise it?

A: Well, yes and no. I am a very feminine oriented person right now, but I do have my "male" moments, if you will. I don't believe in anyone being 100% male of female all the time. Actually, I think a better description of our true essence would be something that has no sexual connotation whatsoever. As spiritual beings, we might lean towards this or that gender from life to life (through reincarnation), but... our main core continues to be as it always was: androgynous.


b) from a female point of view, how important is sex? really very much? how much? does it hurt very much? i know these are teenager questions but when i was a teenager, lets....lets say, i was asleep, and i am waking up now.

A: Well, this one is a little more complicated to answer because I don't know your age. But I'll try, anyway. The thing about sex is that it's supposed to be a spiritual connection between two bodies and two souls. That's my definition of it. But it needs to happen, or it would be great if it could happen only between two people who have come completely into their own. Otherwise, sex may become an instrument of manipulation, of self-sacrifice or worse. Sex can be a beautiful experience. But only when it is not used to control one another or to achieve other less meaningful goals.


c) is it possible to be female and not having a female point of view? i am female but my thoughts aren't. i can not explain it. maybe because it is hard for me to speak with my sister or with my mother or because my female friends kept betraying me.(do i sound stupid?) can i simply ask you? you are far away, i am anonymous, this is great. i even talk to my plants. no joke. they understand my language. you know why i think my thoughts are not female? i always had that feeling. i am late. all girls had their period and i ggot it when i was 15. everybody was busy with boyfriends, i was busy with weird friends. i am not boyish, i do make up my eyes and skin, but i don't understand women magazines (i don't know the correct term in english), and inside of me, i feel ...there is a difference.

A: Again, what most people consider weird or unusual is completely and absolutely normal to me. I have this book, I think I mentioned it to you before, it's called SAME SOUL, MANY BODIES, by Dr. Brian L. Weiss. Well, that book changed my view regarding the little quirkiness that some of us possess. And this quirkiness is more apparent in some of us than in the others. In the book I read about a young man who did not feel he fit into this world and was desperately trying to find either a way out of it or a way to belong to it. You would not believe what happened to him after a session of therapeutic regression (to one of his past lives) and what was the true reason behind his feelings of separation and anxiety. I hope you can get this book and read it too. You will be amazed. Literally! Oh, and you will be even more amazed if you read (can you tell I'm a big reader? LOL) Journey of Souls and Destiny of Souls, by Michael Newton. There's a special chapter in the second one dedicated to all of those people who, like you, can communicate with plants, flowers and all of nature. It is really an interesting (not to say mind blowing) read.


d) remember you first boyfriend, the one you had a physical relationship with, did he leave you? or you left him? i would not survive it. i would die. i know it. because this is the last border. if someone is inside of me and then leaves me, this must be awful. without having sex, it is horrible to be left alone, i don't want to imagine how it would be if....

A: No, my first boyfriend did not leave me. We both decided to date other people and eventually lost touch with each other. But, the thing that is a little concerning to me is that you keep saying that if someone leaves you, you will die. I surely hope this is just something you're saying for effect, and not something that you think would really happen in a situation like this. Remember: no one can take any part of you with them. You are whole now, as you have always been whole. And, honestly, we never leave each other anyway. We may leave each others sight for this one particular lifetime. But we all get together again, over and over, during the periods in between lives. Not to worry. And if someone leaves you, you still have yourself. And that's all that really matters.


And, the test you took here, the one that said "eu sou uma fada" means: "I am a fairy."

So, there you go. You are a fairy.

*smiles*


As always, I hope you can benefit from what I wrote above. Even if just from one word or phrase.

:)